This proverb explicitly teaches that no amount of ritual magic, wealth, or power can fix bad behavior or alter a doomed fate if the individual lacks ethical integrity and gentle character (Ìwà-pẹ̀lẹ́). It posits that our character 'is' our destiny—meaning our daily choices are the literal bricks of our future. To have 'good destiny' is to have 'good behavior' (and vice versa).
Ayànmọ́ ni ìwà pẹ̀lẹ́, ìwà pẹ̀lẹ́ ni ayànmọ́.
Destiny is good character, and good character is destiny. Your life's ultimate path is built on your ethical integrity.
Frequently repeated by Babalawos to humble clients seeking quick magical fixes.